7 things you shouldn’t say when a friend tells you she’s pregnant

1. “I knew it, you look bigger”/ “I could tell” “Thank God, I thought you were getting fat” (or any variation).
My friend said this to me and the last time I had seen her, I wasn’t pregnant. If someone should ask you to guess their news, never guess this; even if you know she’s trying, it would be very painful for her if you’re wrong.

2. “Wow, do you think that’s a good idea?”
No matter what you think of your friend’s relationship or her ability to be a good mother, your opinion will come back to bite you. [Read more...]

The Big Reveal Part Two: work

I told my boss and coworkers today. My boss wasn’t very surprised – I work for a company that works hard and plays hard, so when I wasn’t drinking, it was kind of a red flag. I tried to pass it off as Lent, but that was not convincing apparently.

My coworkers were so supportive. They were surprised and excited; it was great! They started talking about baby showers and having a name suggestion box, which would be hysterical I’m sure.

I’m so relieved that that’s over!

Lenny and Jodie come for a visit – good dream!

Lenny KravitzSo, this was a sexy sexy dream. Lenny Kravitz and Jodie Foster (cute Jodie Foster, not short haired butch Jodie Foster) came for a “visit.” This whole dream felt like a late 1980s video, with black and white snippets instead of a complete dream.

This dream came in week 9 and was an awesome dream!

The Big Reveal Part One: Family and Friends

We told my husband’s parents tonight. He has been putting it off until finally I said that I wanted to tell work next week. He made the call and immediately passed it over to me, “Rebecca has something to tell you!”His mother was happy and emotional but more or less speechless. There was a lot of “Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh!”

His father however cried his eyes out! He had a stroke not too long ago and has apparently become quite emotional since. This proves that theory! And then he said, “What do you want?” He wanted to buy me something, I supposed as a reward – too funny!

Next we told his sister who was much calmer but very happy. She has a little boy who is about a year old, so she’s probably excited that he’ll have a cousin – I guess my in laws thought my husband wouldn’t have kids!

And finally, husband told his friends and I told one of mine. She said “I knew it. I thought you looked fuller in the face last time I saw you.” Unfortunately, I wasn’t pregnant at that point, so that was probably not the best response! Overall, the responses have made me realize that I should put together a list of things not to say when told a friend is pregnant.

Next up… work. YIKES!

Yoga: stretching out that pelvis

I tried yoga last night. It was a great experience if not a little hokey . We stretched our pelivs a lot which I could see being really useful. Only problem I had with it was that the instructor was a little too attentive. She told the whole class I was pregnant (haven’t even told the in-laws!) and every move she would say “this is ok for you pregnant lady”, or “let me fix up the pregnant lady and then I’ll be back to the rest of the class.” The real kicker though was when we welcomed the new life into the room and chanted for the new life!

I felt like the star pupil in that awkward, I don’t want to be teacher’s pet kind of way!